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He likes me! He likes me!
Yesterday we drove and hour away to look at a house that is more like country living, which has always been my desire. On the way home as he’s driving he looks at me and says, “Mare?” I said, “What?”...
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A day in the life of this BS. Only read if you need a laugh!!
So the other morning I get a text from someone asking, ” Are you ok?” I was racking my brain trying to think why would she be asking that so I went back to look at the last conversation we had and this...
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I cried today :(
Went to church with hubby then came home and went to another church with my daughter. The topic of the sermon at the second church was Men of Honor in the home. It was all about how men are supposed to...
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Triggers can be catalysts for change if we let them.
I’m convinced that triggers can be a catalyst for change if we let them be. It doesn’t have to be all bad. Some of our best growing times have been when I’ve been triggered. I think when I got to the...
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Dad, I forgive you!
Friday night my daughter was in a karaoke contest out-of-town. My oldest step-daughter and her business partner put it on. She did an awesome job but didn’t win…she would have won if she had stage...
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Do we make triggers worse by anticipating that something is going to be a...
When I came home from Tennessee 21 days after full disclosure, one of my favorite movies was on…Diary of a Mad Black Woman. I knew that the movie was about a jerk who cheated on his wife and beat her...
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The Day the Turkey Died
It was a great day in the Huperecho household even though a couple of turkeys tried to stunk things up. So I bought a 14 pounder to go with another 14 pounder that was given to us. They were frozen so...
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My family dynamic is changing!
We have always been a close knit family. Even though Lee and I had marital problems we always put on a good face for the kids. We were so good at it that when the affair came out my kids were...
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The Affair Partner who doesn’t die!!!
I had another dream about Lee and his AP. This one wasn’t so good. I dreamed we had moved to a new place but it wasn’t my country home, it was an apartment building with a courtyard in between. Well...
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Can you really have a controlled panic attack?
I woke up Monday morning….first excited then everything went downhill from there. The night before I had posted on my FB: The countdown begins! One week from today I will be moving out to the country...
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Is it possible for an ex-cheater to ever have that same kind of passion that...
“Like most betrayed spouses, after two years I no longer need more detail as to what happened. I need reassurance as to how he feels now and whether I can count on him in the future. At the same time,...
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He asked me to read my blog to him today!!
Two nights ago as I was blogging Lee asked me what I was blogging about. I just told him I was blogging about my funk and the dream. Yesterday on the way to counseling he asked me to read my blog to...
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Hope Springs……….The movie
I have wanted to see this movie since I saw the previews and finally last night after Lee fell asleep I decided to watch it by myself. I really wanted him to watch it with me but he didn’t seem very...
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Beautiful Blogger Award
Thank you Broken Heart Recovery for the nomination for Beautiful Blogger Award. Beautiful Blogger Award Rules: The idea behind the Beautiful Blogger Award is to recognize some of the bloggers we...
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Is D-day truly an anniversary?
So I have been pondering the famous D-Day Anniversary and I have decided I don’t want one. Is that possible to not to give power over to D-Day, Pre D- Day, half-D-Day, trickle down D-Day, First sex...
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I had a revelation today!!!!
I was reading DJ’s Blog A reason to believe just a few minutes ago and got hit with an amazing life giving, freeing revelation. She wrote something her coach had shared with her: Try not to expect...
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Shared my revelation with my husband
So the other night Lee got home from work and asked me if I wanted to take a ride to the store with him. I used to always say no but once a while back when we talked, he let me know he just wanted my...
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Looking ahead and getting past my loneliness!
It’s been a quiet holiday season for me this year. Usually I have had a small group Christmas Party (22 people), all board member and significant other Christmas Thank You For Your Hard Work Party (22...
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Why does he love me?
So I was reading betrayedbymybestfriend’s blog today about wanting her husband to write her a love letter. It got me to thinking. The one question all betrayed spouses ask is “How could you say you...
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Crazy Dream/ Exerpt from Lee’s blog
I had the craziest dream last night. I dreamt I was working at this place not sure what but someone new was buying the store so we were losing our jobs. I think it was a beverage place. We heard...
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